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Saying no, staying kind: boundaries in primary care

14th August 2026 · Season 4 · Episode 18 · Available for over a year

Ever said “yes, that’s fine” while every part of you was quietly saying “absolutely not”? In this episode, Nik is joined by Red Whale mental health lead Lee David for a practical, warmhearted conversation about communicating our needs and setting boundaries in primary care. They explore why clinicians so often put themselves last, how guilt can muddy the waters, and why boundaries are less about being difficult and more about protecting the time, energy and wellbeing we need to keep doing the job well. With relatable examples, the DEAR framework for tricky conversations, and simple ways to say “no” without ruining relationships, this is a timely listen for anyone feeling stretched, overcommitted, or in need of permission to pause before saying yes.

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